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Thursday, March 10, 2016

'Til Debt do us Apart

After reflecting on the last reading I blogged about, I read Mary Loftus' "Till Debt do us Apart". She brings the topic of cash in close relationships to the intimacy of marriage, and reports how many marriages value their money over their marital bond.

Though it is not a pleasant thought, I was not surprised when I read about the marriages that were either built on or destroyed by the financial situation of that person's significant other. As I mentioned last time, the money we have defines our social status. It allows us to purchase the newest technologies, thereby gaining more respect in the eyes of our peers for being on top of the latest trends. As technology continues to grow exponentially, I feel as though people get more caught up in achieving the status that owning these things brings, and view marriage as an easy way to get it; in short: marriage is becoming more selfish. It is a shame to see a bond so sacred which we associate with deep understanding and forgiveness, be forced to make room for heated confrontations between shallow love that Rihanna puts best:

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